Last summer it hit me: I have four children and I hardly have time to be a mother. It broke my heart, it all of a sudden felt wholly unnatural and selfish -working full time and giving my leftover energy to my family. I decided to change things. Majorly.
There is no perfect, ideal, and cohesive road for motherhood, only the twist and turns of the “figure it out yourself” sort... Was I ever a fully-fledged person before I had my children? Why yes, of course I was… I had a life and it was a great one –...