Saying NO!⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
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It can be awkward and I know it's never comfortable (well most of the time), but when you learn to do it, it's joy! Being okay with just saying no sorry I can't do that, or no that doesn't work for me - or not I'd prefer...