Being human is hard, what more than raising them, so go easy on yourself. Use kind words, you're doing such a good job. You're getting things right and I see you. I see you learning from the missteps and growing stronger and better as you do.
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There is no perfect, ideal, and cohesive road for motherhood, only the twist and turns of the “figure it out yourself” sort... Was I ever a fully-fledged person before I had my children? Why yes, of course I was… I had a life and it was a great one –...