You can't have everything you want. You can't see to every mission, collect every moment, harvest every opportunity or witness every experience. Some things will never be named for you. Some things will be, but not right now, and not when you covet it the
There is no perfect, ideal, and cohesive road for motherhood, only the twist and turns of the “figure it out yourself” sort... Was I ever a fully-fledged person before I had my children? Why yes, of course I was… I had a life and it was a great one –...